Ethnography
I work at the residential program “Crossroads”. We work with male teenagers the ages 12 – 20 years old. Crossroads is a behavioral treatment residential program that provides services for male adolescents with a history of sexually abusive behavior. We strive to deepen the adolescent’s capacity to reflect critically, respond empathetically and live responsibly. Like all the teenagers they have their own routine, but when you are in the program, your routine is most likely to be monitored. One of the favorite parts of their routine is free time which they spend most of the time playing different types of sports. I enjoy playing with them and studying their behavior. The way they interact with their peers and how they behavior during in sports. The central position of positive peer culture is that young people can develop self-worth, significance, dignity, and responsibility only as they become committed to the positive values of helping and caring for others. This philosophy appears to be missing in many of today’s educational and treatment program. They hear every day by staff, “It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely help anther without helping himself.” There is one word that best describes the subculture in my job, “sports”. I have been working at Crossroads for six years and sport is the best way to interact with the residents. Some of them displace their negative behavior through sports. However some use sports as a coping skills. Sports are more positive than negative.
Sport and aggressive behavior: Do the sports create aggressive behavior, or attract people who are already aggressive? Aggression and sports have gone together as long as sports have been around, be it from the player themselves, from the parents, coaches, or spectators; sports and aggressive behavior just seem to be inseparable. Some of my residents display this type of behavior to fit in. That’s why in Crossroads you have to be on level to play some type of sport just to keep everybody safe. Crossroads program works with a level system. For example, Level Six is the highest level and the Level One is the lowest. Also Level One and Two we “call off level”: that means you can’t go on off ground activities; to participate in any you have to be on Level Three up. At Crossroads, when a resident is on Level One, they only can pass the football around or dribble the basketball by them selves. However, yesterday was a beautiful day and we tried a different routine by allowing the Level One kids to play football because we had two extra staff on the field. The game was running normally and everybody seemed to b having fun. After a while, we started to see some frustration in the losing team. They started to trigger and provoke each other.
TC was one of the residents on the winning team and MC and JR were playing in the losing team. They were playing the tag football we call two hand football. Those three residents have problems with each other. MC and RJ always go after the TC; that’s why staff always has to keep eyes on them all the time. They are the ones that use sport to displace their aggressive behavior on the field. On the residents’ word, they always “force it “. For example, the other day they were playing a shooting contest. Everybody takes ten shots and the others get the rebound. However, when the TC turned, they didn’t go for the rebound and TC got frustrated because he was shooting and going for his own rebound.
TC: “What f#### Why I have to go for my own rebound? “
Staff: “Watch your language! One more time and you are going to take a time out!”
TC: “Whatever … but you knows they are forcing it … you know that’s not fair”.
Staff:” I understand, TC, but it’s not a reason to swear.”
TC: “Aye ok … you guys suck. I’m going to play soccer by myself”.
TC is a good soccer player. He is 14 years old, 5’11” and 150Lbs. I remember last year when I brought him to sign for the Taunton youth soccer league. He was one of the taller kids on the team. He was even taller than the coach. After he signed for the team, I brought him shopping. Like the entire soccer team, TC’s favorite store is Dick’s Sport. It was his first stop. We walked in; he went to the soccer section. That day they had a good deal on soccer items. He found one deal, for soccer cleats, socks, shin guards and a ball for $35. He was so happy. After that he bought couple of soccer jerseys. One of the jerseys was of his favor player, Cristiano Ronald, who plays for his favorite team Real Madrid. On the next stop, he went to “Champion “and bought a nice pair of navy blue Jordan shoes and one t-shirt to match. Today, all teenagers want to match. In the way back, I was trying to have a conversation with the resident. I couldn’t because he was so focused on playing his new Fifa12 one of his favor video games on his PSP. This is one of the negatives of the technology: today parents can’t even have a simple conversation with their children without been interrupted. When they are off level and they not playing video game, the best way to interact with them is one on one or playing sports with them. However, sports can go either ways, positive or negative special for TC. Every time he is outside playing basketball, he always gets kicked out of the game. He has anger issues he gets in every argument that’s going on, on the court. All the behavior I think is because he has been in the program for so long, and he got used to it. His behavior on his soccer league is completely different than the one in the program.
The poor behavior always affects them in the short term or in the long term. When they are off level, they can participate in any activity to protect themselves and the community. Last year, JB had to quiet the basketball team because of his behavior. He is a very talent basketball player. He made the Taunton high basketball team, but he didn’t play in the tournament because he was off level all the time. He missed the freshmen year, but on that same summer, JB started to pick up his behavior we signed him to some church league and he was the MVP.
Yesterday I was driving JB to a doctor’s appointment; I was quizzing JB about his basketball opinions.
“Who’s the best basketball player ever?”
“Come on Odas …. MJ. “
“Who has the most rings in the NBA? “
“Hold on un MJ, no, I think Bill Russell. “
“What’s the best sport?”
“Basketball without discussion like 1+1 =2 “
“Why do you wear green head band all the time?”
“Because I want to be the next Rondo… also to mach my shoes. “
“Why do you use sports as a coping skill for you “
“Since I was young, I used to play basketball all the time. In Crossroads, the best way to get out of trouble is going outside and shooting some hoops. When I’m playing basketball, I forget my entire problems…. Like why didn’t mom call today? Why my DSS worker didn’t didn’t approve my visit? Also, when I’m outside playing, I’m not deal with TC and fucking arguments. You know basketball is my life. It is the only thing I feel confident in and I’m good at”.
“What’s your plan for the future?”
“I have a lot of stuff going through my mind. First, I want to get out here and find a job because you know … I want to buy couple Jordan’s and also help my mom. Another is finishing high school and my biggest dream is going to college in North Carolina to play basketball. But right now, I want to focus on my therapy and my level. Yo, when we get home, can we finish our game?” Last night after you left, I stayed late and I was practice some moves. I think now I can beat you, “O”.I learned some new moves on 2K12 that are killer. You can’t stop me with Kobe. I have some crossover and new dunks I will smack you; I’m L.A and you will be the Miami Heat.
However, sports at Crossroads have always been a key to success in their treatments. Ninety percent of the residents use sports as a coping skill. During the summer, they spend more time outside playing basketball, soccer, football, softball, skateboarding, four square, etc, because they don’t have too many options. They are in the program with rules to follow and surrounded by adults with it are not their parents or family. Also, playing sports is the easy way to get out of trouble or pass the time. JB “When I’m angry about something that I don’t have control of, I usually go outside and shoot some basketballs or ride my skateboard, because that keeps my mind clear and I just focus on positive things”. Also I use sports to communicate with them. Some residents don’t really talk or process well; the best way to making them talking is playing a one on one game. Most of time, when they are talking to staff is during the time- out home process, when they lost their level. The only conversation is about what they did wrong and why they are there, but when the staff is playing sports with them, they tell you what is going wrong or what is going through their mind. They tell their future plans and you see different types of kids. On the other hand, they see different aspect of staff, not a bad side, not just the one who takes away their level or visits. I remember one time when I asked one resident “What is your favorite day of the week? “ The answer was Monday. And I said,” Why?” TC said “because Monday is the mandatory activity. Is the only day we feel like normal kids? We have a chance to play with staff and we pick the game we want. Also, we feel like a family; everybody is out having fun, laughing, joking around, having few arguments and doing what we like the most.
Most of the residents are using sports to get out of the house. When they are off level, they don’t have much to do. They stay in the house bored and when they are bored is most likely when they do bad things. That’s why they focus on getting back on level to play what they like. Also, when they are on level, they can play after school events or sign up for different leagues. Some kids don’t have a lot of family involved in their life; they use sports to make friends or to create family. We have one case that the coach set up a visit to reassure one resident. I remember that sad day when everybody had to go “on visit” and one kid had to stay in the house because he didn’t have place to go or family to visit, sport gave him somebody to look for or a family.
Cross roads family had a focus cookout and slam dunk contest. Like a move out of an NBA competition, the Crossroads champion JB leapt over two bikes and another youth to dunk a half court shot, impressing more than 50 people crowded round the basketball court. The hoop shoot contest and pick-up games delighted the youth, family, friends and Community Care Services’ staff who attended the first annual crossroads family focus cookout. “We wanted to bring family and friends together for the kids at crossroads, “said (Yemi), assistant director for Crossroads, “Almost every youth had a family member present” And just about everyone invited showed up. Invitation that designed as movie tickets drew guests to the Hollywood –themed celebration, which featured staff dressed in costumes depicting popular personalities like Lady Gaga. Staff helped to transport many family members, driving to Quincy, Randolph and Fall River to pick-up mothers, siblings, and cousins. Even mentors, tutors, and DCF worker joined the entire residential staff, including off-duty counselors and former employees, who judged the talent show, manned the grills and enjoyed the festivities. Guests enjoyed great homemade food – pasta and specialty rice dishes, baked beans, salads, macaroni and cheese, along with grilled sausages, hot dogs, burgers and steaks. People paired up for the spade tournaments, a favored card game by Crossroads’ youth and staff.
The cookout was a great opportunity to bring families together to meet staff. It was nice to see family members advocating for each other, and to see that they got to know each other better, and even to see the friendships that youths had developed among themselves. It was eye-opening for the staff to see the kids in different light. Yemi said, “A youth who typically acts tough, seems like a young boy talking with their Mom or Uncle.” While everyone was thankful that the weather held out, the rain coming only after the party wrapped up, Crossroads residents were grateful too. The kids thanked the staff for putting the party on. “They were excited to spend time with family and friends,” commented Yemi…